Ramond Cianci

Raymond “Big Hearted Ray Ray” Cianci was born on December 16, 1958, and from the very beginning he had a presence that could fill a room. He was a son, brother, father and friend. He lived his life his way.

Raymond “Big Hearted Ray Ray” Cianci passed away peacefully on August 6, 2025. He was the son of Victor and Helen Cianci and brother of the late Victor Cianci, who passed away in January of 2025 and whom Ray now joins in Heaven. He is survived by his brother Donald Cianci and his sister Mary Cianci-Hunter. He was the proud father of his three daughters Katelynn, Emily and Victoria and although life was complicated, they were always his greatest joy. He loved his family, his friends, and the people who shared in his adventures.

Ray grew up with a quick wit, love for conversation and a head for number that seemed to come so naturally. He could talk about sports for hours, tell a story like no one else, and charm his way into and out of just about anything. He loved Italian food, especially a perfectly made meatball, a crusty frizelle and fresh-caught salmon. If you were lucky enough to be invited to dinner with Ray, chances are he insisted on picking up the check.

Life wasn’t always easy for Ray. The severe pain of rheumatoid arthritis, to the point where he could barely walk, became a constant companion. Still, he never complained. He found ways to enjoy the things that brought him comfort-a good game, a friendly bet, a drink with friends, and Frank Sinatra playing in the background. “My Way” wasn’t just a song to him, it was his anthem.

Ray also faced personal struggles that caused him to miss moments and opportunities along the way. But even with his struggles, those who knew hi best will tell you his heart was as big as they come. He had a gift for making people feel seen, heard, and welcomed no matter who they were.

Ray lived life on his own terms with humor, grit, and a little mischief. He was spirited, generous to a fault, and he could make you laugh even on the hardest days.

He left this world on August 6, 2025, too soon for those who loved him. His story is one of joy and pain, triumph and mistakes, love and loss-but it is his story. As the song says: “The record shows, I took the blows-and did it my way.” -Frank Sinatra

He will be missed beyond measure.

There will never be another ‘Big Hearted Ray’.